What Should I Do Before We Start A Family?

You both should have a stable job. Make sure you have a nice home and a safe neighborhood. The medical stuff is for your doctor. Ask him the questions but you should make sure that you two are willing to take alot of freetime out your schedule for a baby. A baby requires alot of attention and isn't like the doll babies you buy in walmart, they're real. I suggest buying a Baby Think it Over doll. They're 500 bucks but its worth a lesson you'll need in the future!